I am sleeping with my Pastor. It started as receiving guidance, but I then fell in love with this man. He was married, but is not any longer. My issue is that he does not want to display our love for one another. I'm so hurt by it. He wants to be a Pastor on Sunday, and my man during the week. Should I give him a ultimatum?
My thoughts: Leave the church. He is a Pastor, which we are ignoring for some reason. No man of God should be sleeping with his congregation anyway. That's not how you find a wife. Stop being used and love yourself enough to know that you deserve better. Set standards for yourself and love thy self. No one deserves to be solely used for sex, especially from a Pastor. The Pastor is the leader for you in regards to entering heaven. He is not a Pastor. Don't let his wrong doings land you a free pass to hell.
Any advice for this sista?
