Dear Kendra

Dear Kendra,

I am sleeping with my Pastor. It started as receiving guidance, but I then fell in love with this man. He was married, but is not any longer. My issue is that he does not want to display our love for one another. I'm so hurt by it. He wants to be a Pastor on Sunday, and my man during the week. Should I give him a ultimatum?

My thoughts: Leave the church. He is a Pastor, which we are ignoring for some reason. No man of God should be sleeping with his congregation anyway. That's not how you find a wife. Stop being used and love yourself enough to know that you deserve better. Set standards for yourself and love thy self. No one deserves to be solely used for sex, especially from a Pastor. The Pastor is the leader for you in regards to entering heaven. He is not a Pastor. Don't let his wrong doings land you a free pass to hell.

Any advice for this sista?

Happy Mother's Day!

Happy Mother's Day to all! I am blessed to be a mother to 3 children; Amira, Chloe and our angel in my tummy. 

When my husband and I joined, I had always said I would NEVER date a man with children. Oh was I so wrong, lol... God is so witty. 5 1/2 years later, she's all mine! Then Chloe comes along, another blessing... Now, this baby! Don't make me shout! 

I am blessed and no one can ever change that! No one. Happy Mother's Day to all the mothers that give endless love without wanting something in return! Love your children until death.

Enjoy your day!

Love and blessings,